What is emotional Intelligence?
Emotional intelligence or EQ are the non-cognitive skills that make us personally and socially more competent and successful. One can think of Emotional Intelligence as being made up of 4 areas that all begin with the letter S:
Self Awareness- Awareness of one’s emotions and using it to guide one’s behavior. It is awareness of strengths and weaknesses and being confident in working towards goals.
Self Management- Ability to handle anger and frustration in a positive way and to put off immediate gratification in pursuit of a larger goal. It is the ability to deal with stress without falling apart and to cope in healthy ways. It is adapting to changes easily and expressing motivation and optimism in the face of obstacles.
Social Awareness- Ability to see things from another’s point of view and to see a situation accurately. It is also one’s involvement and willingness to work with others for the common good of the group.
Social Skills- Ability to develop and maintain close relationships which involves honesty and trustworthiness. It is one’s skill in working with others: communication, cooperation, assertiveness and negotiation of differences. This area of EQ includes the leadership skills of influencing and developing others.
Why is it important?
One’s IQ can predict how successful one will be in school but not in life. In the 1990s Daniel Goleman wrote 2 books, Emotional Intelligence (1995) and Working with Emotional Intelligence (1998) in which he popularized how important these skills are in career success. He documents years of research and examples on how these personal and social competencies are better predictors of personal and career success than one’s IQ.
Research performed on college campuses showed that students with high emotional intelligence were more likely to achieve a GPA of 3.0 and above as well as complete their degree (J.D. Parker, 2004). It appears that high emotional intelligence enables students to use their IQ, education, and talents to excel above others.
Living in an emotionally intelligent way is being authentic and genuine. If you have EQ it will follow in all areas of your life. Emotionally intelligent leaders live their values and value their employees, thus inspiring them to bring out their best.
In his research at nearly 200 global companies, Goleman found direct ties between emotional intelligence and measurable business results. He also emphasized that the best method for increasing one’s emotional intelligence is through coaching. (Harvard Business Review, 2004).
A random survey of 248 U.S. based Human Resource Managers demonstrated that 55% of their organizations use formal coaching as an employee development method (Society of Human Resource Management, 2005).
LINK: To review more research on emotional intelligence go to: www.eiconsortium.org
How is emotional intelligence measured and developed?
Emotional intelligence can be measured using a tool such as the EQ – i which is a self assessment that can be taken online and produces a report that gives an EQ or emotional quotient score as well as 15 sub scores on the components that make up one’s EQ.
The subscales are:
- self awareness
- assertiveness
- self regard
- self actualization
- independence
- empathy
- interpersonal relationships
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- social responsibility
- problem solving
- reality testing
- flexibility
- stress tolerance
- impulse control
- happiness
- optimism
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The EQ – i report shows strengths and areas to improve to be more effective on the job as a performer, manager, or leader, thus achieving greater success for oneself and for the company. A coaching plan can be developed to target growth steps, outline action steps and evaluate progress.
This assessment takes less than 30 minutes to complete which is followed by a 45 minute phone based coaching session to discuss report results and outline strategy to further develop skills. The assessment must be interpreted by a certified trainer. Other shorter self scored assessments are available for group coaching or staff workshops.
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